Woman question...

[Principessa21]

principessa21, just curious, but when a guy has never had women interested in him (but they love him as a friend), and has never had a girlfriend, women can feel it. So how does a guy get that lucky first break? I guess I always had those guys that hit on women in deli/coffee lines or that hit on waitresses as being pompous jerks. I guess that's why they always get the girls then

Well it's the way a guy approaches a girl. When I'm talking about being confident, I don't mean those eager meat-heads. Just start a conversation, smile, etc. It's very charming when a guy just comes up, is himself, and asks for a number. Practice your approach on some girl friends, or just go into some random bar and give it a go. What's the worst that could happen? She politely declines? If she reacts badly, you either were an ass or she's a @*%+% and you wouldn't want that anyway.

 

BTW, I don't think women are turned off by guys that've never had a girlfriend, although I guess if you're 35 and was never in a relationship, it isn't a good sign. But I have plenty of friends, myself included, that would be very hesitant to date a virgin. I really do think that most girls do like the good guys, you just need to go up to her and say hi.